Submissives and Slaves Reading List

Much of this content will mirror the Dominants list, as being a Dominant requires a broad and deep knowledge, while a Submissives knowledge is often a subset of that combined with a lot of training on how their particular Owner likes things done. However, the more skills you can bring to the relationship, the more valuable you will be and these books cover the real fundamentals and basics of being a useful Submissive.

The two books on the Required List are non-negotiable, they will teach you how to take care of yourself, set boundaries, and be a healthy and pleasing submissive, as well as how to truly serve and be at peace with your service in a meaningful way.

The path of a submissive is sometimes hard, and often joyful. You are special, you are chosen, and whom you choose to serve give your life tremendous meaning and importance. You have so much to contribute, and you will find you place.

I believe in you.

Core (Required) Texts

Care and Nurture for the Submissive by Elizabeth Cramer

Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny

Specialised (Optional) Texts

High Protocol Dynamics

The Ritual of Dominance and Submission by David English

Manner and Etiquette

The Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness by Florence Hartley

Structuring a Household around Service Dynamics

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families by Stephen Covey

The Rule of Saint Benedict by Saint Benedict

Order for Discipline and Service Handbook by Mr McG (more expensive alt. link)

On the Nature and Transfer of Control

The Control Book by Peter Masters

Introduction to Rope Bondage

Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes by The Two Knotty Boys

Constructing your own Kink Toys

The Artisans Book of Fetishcraft by John Huxley

Total Ownership and Mindfucks

The Forked Tongue by Flagg

Sexual Fantasy and Roleplaying

Imaginative Sex by John Norman

Massage Techniques

Lingam Massage: Awakening Male Sexual Energy by Michela Riedl

Caring for Houseplants

Complete Houseplant Handbook by Peter Mchoy

Vehicle Maintenance and Ongoing Use

Vehicle Maintenance for Women by Murdoch Books

Domestic Service

Home Comforts by Cheryl Mendelson

Readers Digest Fix-It-Yourself Manual by Readers Digest

Tidying and Decluttering a Home

Spark Joy by Marie Kondo